When someone we love is grieving, our first inclination is to do or say something helpful. So, we rush in bearing food and hugs, and then we stand there, searching for the right thing to say. And then, because we’re just clumsy about grief and grieving in this country, we say the exact wrong thing. There’s an easy trick to fixing that, and it’s simply this…

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